Well, for starters, it's certainly not the end of the world.Even though there are obvious disadvantages to dating guys with children, there are some really great advantages, as well. Men with kids have to schedule their time around kids." Peter Sheras, a clinical psychologist at the University of Virginia, and the author of "The commitment is the most important piece because, when there's commitment, that becomes obvious to the kids."Being true to yourself and your partner is key.Not every dating relationship reaches the level of commitment that necessitates including the kids.
Adding him to the mix creates a new layer of complexity—with no easy wins.Having only exchanged brief, common courtesies via phone with my guy’s ex, I can say that it is necessary for you to be cordial in this situation, because you’ll be interacting with her child as well. Seeing a man with a child does give an inclination of the type of father he makes, and females – me included – tend to look for that particular quality when choosing our mates.In my case, we haven’t really had any tension thus far. there are many people out there who have a child with their ex. Coming to terms with it depends on what the single (and childless) individual is willing to accept, all in the name of love and finding ‘the one’. Possessing the ideal qualities is what would make the final deal in him becoming a potential husband.Before the conversation ends, he asks for your name and number so the two of you can continue talking over the phone.Just as soon as you thought your prayers have finally been answered, he tells you he'll call you once he drops off the kids..his baby momma's house. So what's a woman to do when she meets a single dad?